In loving memory

Mary's Story

A life that still inspires so much good.

Our organization is a living tribute to Mary Rapelje, a remarkable woman who dedicated her life to helping others. Mary was a wife, mother, sister, aunt, cousin, and grandmother. She spent her life selflessly supporting those around her, whether through hosting family and friends, teaching her daughters the importance of giving back, or simply offering a compassionate ear and wise advice. Mary’s legacy of kindness, generosity, and love is the foundation of Build a Team of Hope.

When Mary was going through cancer treatments herself, she often expressed how incredibly grateful she was for the support she had, from loved ones and the ability to afford the care she needed. She recognized how fortunate she was and never took it for granted. Her heart ached for those who didn’t have the same resources, especially the children she saw bravely battling cancer in their small, fragile bodies. Their courage stayed with her.

In October 2020, Mary attended the very first Golf Outing organized by her daughters and sons-in-law. The event was held not just to raise funds, but to show Mary the beginnings of what would become her legacy. Being there, surrounded by her family and community, meant the world to her.

Mary passed away in November 2020, but her spirit and mission live on through this foundation. In her honor, we are determined to continue her work by making a positive impact in the lives of those affected by cancer, easing their burdens during a time that can feel overwhelming and hopeless.

Through Build a Team of Hope, we carry forward Mary’s compassion, and we’re committed to standing beside those in need, just as she always did.

“When someone has cancer, the whole family and everyone who loves them does, too.”

— Terri Clark

Her light continues to help so many.

Carry Mary’s compassion forward